How many times did you take something personally today? How many times did you hear something and you attached your name to it?
Why do you want to feel miserable?
Why take on other people's stuff?
What would you life look like if you let other people's stuff alone and took care of your own stuff?
No matter what you do, there will always be other people!
And, as long as there are other people, there will always be other people's baggage.
So, instead of trying to find a matching set...
...forgive yourself, let it go, and move on.
Stop taking things personally.
Nothing is about you… except you.